Help for Men – stopping abuse and violence Is relationship abuse a problem in your life? If so, you’ve come to the right place. What's happening for you right now? Choose your link to information and new ideas: I’m going to court for domestic or family violence. Get info about court and the law » I’ve used abusive or violent behaviour and I want to find a better way to handle things. Get help to make a change » Other people say I’m abusive, but I don’t think so. Get help to understand what's happening » I’ve been a bit verbal, but it’s not violence. Learn more about domestic violence » I’ve been violent once, but it’s not something I’ve done before. Learn more about domestic violence » I’ve used abusive or violent behaviour but it was only because she/he attacked me first. Get food for thought, and a way forward » Your situation not covered here? Look here »